My Gift To You
By Nicholas W. Shephard
Sr.
INTRODUCTION
This book of poems “My Gift To You” was written to encourage the young and the old to try love
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Table
of Contents
Whispers in your ear is
as a breeze that floats across your body when perspiring on a hot day, Whispers
in your ear is as the gentle lick of my tongue against your lower spine moving
slowly up your back to your neck causing your body to tighten, Whispers in your
ear is as a drop of cold ice water that places itself on your warm body on a
hot summer day while sleeping. I want to be that whisper........
What’s going on with you?
Why are you not bowing down to me? I gave to you, I fed you when you were
hungry, I clothed you when you were naked, I held you close to me when you were
afraid.
As I reach down to earth
I feel a sense of peace.
There are many, many,
many, things that satisfy me and knowing that it is possible that a woman can
truly be overcome by my love, that soft love that only appears when her heart
is at its peak....It is that same desire to touch her allows her heart and
flesh to quiver from that same touch, it is my touch that extends beyond my
finger tips that generate that same electricity of emotion which pulls you
closer to my body..... It is there love explodes, it is there where our minds
fade to black.... it is there life cease to matter as our body touch....barely
and gently.... feeling the hairs of emotion which it stands joining and
vibrating its message to our minds..... It is there the desire for love extends
itself beyond our expectations..... It is there life repeats and starts
again........
First you must be in a
very quiet area of your home, the area must be well ventilated due to the
amount of heat that this test will generate. You must be in a area where you
can see nothing other than a small dim light only enough to see the reflection
of or the outline of your body. Ensure that you are bathed and clean inside and
out due to the content of this test your body must be pure. Lightly scent your
body with a mild fragrance, oil your body slowly, starting at your feet then up
toward your neck and face. This will ensure that you are totally relaxed before
the test begins massage your body slowly starting from your feet slowly working
your way up toward your inner thighs then your back side. It is very important
that you do this because it will take your mind off any previous activity. Now
lay back in a half sitting position preferably in a 45 degree angle while
rubbing your body closing your eyes clearing your thoughts of anything that
distract you from the conclusion and the successful completion of this test.
Now, imagine my hands, strong, smooth, gentle, clean, and perfect. My body,
leans, strong, clean and scented with that same desire that make you want me.
Imagine your hands are mine, massaging you slowly, down toward your inner
thighs and toward your backside. Imagine my hands slightly touching your body
while you are free of all thoughts and outside desires, now, lift up your legs
holding your knees toward your shoulders rubbing the back side of your thighs
and toward your most inner section of your body. Now, rub your cup that holds
life, gently, gently....gently, feel my breath against your inner thighs and
toward that cup that holds life. Feel your heart beating
slowing....listen....listen....listen to it......quietly..... rub your cup
slowly thinking only of me..... sense your stomach and the desire it has to
feel me deep inside your cup of life....feel my tongue, warm and gently licking
and slowly kissing what was once yours now making it something that is mine........
Feel yourself relax as your body start to tremble and lift up slowly.....
waiting for the next portion of excitement that is all but familiar to you.....
listen to you heart....beating faster, faster, faster............ now slowly
feel me in your stomach...such sensation such beauty.... Now breath
slowly.....slowly..... as you begin to feel yourself release into my
mouth.......and tongue....feel the sensation moving within your body moving
into your feet and toes.... now up your spine.... into you mind.... Now open
your eyes and repeat it again until you have reached that level of excitement
that only I can give you........
Assignment Complete. You
got an 'A'
I was talking to a friend
of mine yesterday evening and the discussion came up about the influence that a
woman have over a man based on what society has instilled in man through his
upbringing. This woman thought that a man should give to a woman without her
asking. He could not understand her concept or logic of this idea. So, he
brought the conversation to my attention in which I reminded him of the current
status the woman has in today’s society. One of which a black woman is
positioned in front of the black man which make it is impossible for him to
achieve independently. But a woman can succeed without the black man. Now, I
explained to him that a black man must sit behind the black woman in a
professional career, give her money, pay all the bills, allow her to make
costly mistakes that he would normally refuse by himself, pay child support
when she makes more money which will cause him to live in substandard
conditions, compete with her in section 8 homes, then commit himself to her for
the rest of his life through marriage “..until death do you part…” ..... HELL
NO!!!!!! I just don't see myself giving a woman that much control over my
life.....
You know that I speak to
women on a daily basis and they have many reasons why they do not want to
depend on a man. This is against the laws of God. Women are not suppose to be
independent from man and some women turn the Bible laws around to suit their
own views and desires. This is why women are still struggling with the black
man and with what little he can provide to them. There are some black men that
can support the black woman without any assistance from her labor but that is
only 2% of the black men. Don't think that just because there are people riding
around in new cars and living in large or mid-size homes that they are doing well.
Some of those individuals are the same ones you hear about on the news robbing
banks, stores, selling drugs, and doing all kinds of illegal activities to stay
ahead of the normal black working class family such as you and I. The problem
with the black society is that they want to live in such a way that they can
stand out amongst the few, because the many still doesn't have anything (not
worth bragging about). Don't cause yourself to loose faith because TV expose
out of the norm to those who desire much....... We fall victim to the publicity
that TV expose us to and then push the idea upon our families. This is not
suppose to be.... We are not suppose to live as though our mothers and fathers
left us hundreds of thousands dollars to our kids when we knew that it is
coming from us the second generation kids who are also struggling to survive in
this society. Don't cause
yourself to be fooled. If
you don't have it don't worry about it!!!! Don't let you kids push your way of
thinking to believe that your are suppose to have great things when great
things only reside in your heart........ The beauty of life is where you lay
your head and wake up safe. Money is just part of the solution not the total we
have it backwards...... I would love to drive a big nice care, live in the
beautiful part of Detroit, receive a worthy income to plan for vacations for my
family and I, but it is not possible for us all. Society is not going to permit
it!!!!!! Take comfort in your husbands desire to produce the wonders that God has
provided for him and him alone, it there his glory shall spread to you and the
children.... Stop trying to match your husband against Gods blessings, you
will fail every time....
God knows your husband’s heart and yours and he will not put anything on him
that he cannot bare.... I know this because my wife looks up to me to be the
provider for the whole family, and if she gets a job to add to the fruits then
so be it Gods blessings that he can full himself the more...... You are a
reflection of your husband not the other way around, it is through him that you
will receive your blessings by humbling yourself to Gods grace....be
patience......as God is with us..... He knows what your desires are stop trying
to out run God..... You are a beautiful saved and spiritual woman... remain
that why and you will see that everything always work itself out..... I know
and you know that you are a strong black woman, God sees it even though man
does not.... that should be enough for you..... I know that it hurts but this comes
when our expectations goes beyond Gods plan and law that he has set for us...
You can not leave God out of the picture while you are envisioning dreamy life
and comfort... God sees that same thing and see you with everything that you
desire or want..... but in time.... we sometimes try to rush God into making
decisions but he has it planned for us in that particular moment..... I know it
is frustrating but that is what we get!!!!!!! If God is running and we are
keeping up with him and have the energy to keep up and keep going and God
decides to start walking you better recognize!!!!! It doesn't matter how much
energy that you have or to keep going at full force slow down....... Sometimes
God may start walking to pick up someone that you might have passed up..... A
speeding car can not see an ant walking only the person walking slowly enough
to take notice....... Gods glory is at different speeds and levels stay focused
and prepare to stop and start walking when God decides to walk or you will be
disappointed.........
Well, let me say this
much.... I love working in the yard and making everything
look beautiful.... I love
to see beautiful women walking being admired by those who
only wish they can have a
person as beautiful as they are...... I love the beautiful
scent of a woman who is
very well dressed..... I love to see nature..... a walk
in the park while holding
hands...... I love looking into a woman's eyes while she
guesses what will happen
next, knowing that she only want to be caressed ..... and kissed by me..... I
love that sexy woman who knows that only I can fulfill her desires...
I am sitting next to you
on comfortable leather European style couch.... We have just finished a wonder
gourmet meal prepared be me. The wine choice is exotic, and the night fills the
air, the lights are turned down low and the scent in the air is of fragrant
flowers…. This make you feel very relaxed knowing that this love affair will go
much further than anything that you have ever known. What should you do next?
There are some things
that I have tried and these things may work for you as well if you are the type
of person who can keep from exploding into a rage.
The first thing is that
all men should realize that most women are very possessive when it comes to men
or things that she feel was earned through hard work or a lot of effort. Women
don’t like to be told due to the fact that most women are intelligent enough to
figure out their own problems without you. So, convinced her that what she may
have done may require a different approach. This may take a while if you have
established a controlling and negative view with your woman. If you have done
this you may need to have the patience to watch your dream unfold.
If you are the type of
man who live at home with your mom and by some out of the way reason decide to
move in with a woman (Lord forbid) then you must understand that you are now
her property by proxy. Now, can you clean? Can you cook? Can you balance a
check book? What about provide comfort to kids if she have one or two? I hope
that you can answer each one of these questions with yes. If not then you are
about to enter a jungle of misunderstanding so you better be willing to learn
from her. Ask her what can you do to help out if you do not have a job or if
you do have a job ask her how would she like to divide up the bills. Note:
Never, Never, Never, give her less than 65% of your income to maintain the
household. Rule: Let her know upfront that your net bills are such and such.
And you need at least such and such to maintain yourself and what you own. This
will eliminate any problems, also, write them down, better yet type them out
and make two copies of the sheet and give her a copy. Keep track of your copy
and stick with the journal, so if you get a raise in pay you will be able to
keep the extras.
If there is one car and
she owns that car learn the public transportation and catch the bus frequently
so that she will not or you get comfortable with depending on her for
transportation and to everyone else it will appear that you are carrying your
own weight as a man. Get to know your woman friends and their mates so that it
is easier to find out when you are making mistakes or your woman is unhappy
with you or things that she may want and just feel that you should know. This
will keep you in good standing at all times.
Don’t do things that you
can’t keep doing over a six-month period. Starting romantic excursions just to
impress her when you know that you cannot continue to do it or afford it over a
long period of time will only make your relationship falter. Keep it real let
her know your status (if you are planning to keep her) so that when times get
tight she will understand why things are slowing down. Note: If you cannot save
up for a special moment then it is not worth doing right away. By using
unplanned money or income to do something when you do not have the bulk of
money to do it will only put you in debt. Women do not like an in debt or broke
man with a job!!!!!! So, save up for special moments and plan them out then
surprise her it will look more impressive when you are spending with no regard
of costs.
Try something new in bed
or while both of you are alone. Keep laughing and keep her laughing. One thing
a woman love is to be away from you and while alone flashes of funny moments
both of you have done which make her smile. I have seen women while just
sitting and working go into a trans smiling. These are the special moments that
will always stay with her.
Demand respect. Don’t be
her son!!!!!!!! Be her man!!!!! Stress that you want to accomplish most things,
that will not need her assistance, by yourself and it will be done strictly by
you…. She may not agree with this at first but keep her updated daily on your
progress and what you have accomplished this will give her comfort and
confidence in what you are doing alone.
Whispering into your ear
the sounds of love that soothes the mind and butters the soul… Is it me or is
it you that allow me to know the secrets stored deep within your heart… Is it
the pleasure created and stored in the jar above my heart that allows you to
know that you’re welcome only brings to me the sound of things that is and will
always be? Is it your touch that I remember or the sweet taste of your tongue
wetly placed into my mouth which releases the fresh taste of things to be said
and kept secret? Or, is it that look in your eyes when walking away, knowing,
that the pleasures tested is only to be welcomed once the moon is set in its
true place in the heavens and stored deep within your heart. Look at me and
tell me, which love is it to be? Can you choose one and satisfy my mind when I
need you lying next to me when I awake as the sun reflects off of my face
giving me things that need to be and is? When will the fresh drop of your fluid
drip from my tongue as you catch your breath after it is finished and I am
pleased that you are still here next to me? Is it you that need me or I needing
you? Is love near the room which is used to refresh your body in the morning
right before you dash off for the day? What will your co-worker or friends say?
Will they know the reflection of your skin that reveals what was done and has
stained your body and dipping the scent of what I left in your mind to be
remembered? Yes, it is I who is attached to your soul forever and stored in the
heavens awaiting your arrival to introduce you to the Gods as my Queen forever……..
They Bow.
Looking into your eyes
make the emotions real, would you like to know how real? Well, let me tell you
that it is all worth it when the times are hard and the mood is relaxing, after
the pleasure of being with you is gone but the scent of you still lingers, I
know that your return into my arms will only mean one thing….. a repeat of what
happened last night….. Strawberry’s on your lips, whip cream traces from your
neck down to your cup of life which pulls me close to what is expected…… you
anticipate me as your hips lift up to meet my lips…. but I wait…. waiting is
part of what is needed to make things clear in the sight of the one being
loved…… I genteelly kiss your line of perfection as you begin to moan closing
your eyes …… dreaming of that last, a time that was not a waste, but, a
pleasurable moment that has lasted until this very moment which will again
repeat itself, not just once, but again, and again, and again….. Look into my
eyes…. And remember that I mean what I say and will repeat what was done and
dreamed about today….. this moment will last…… because my eyes have convinced
you. In my eyes are the reminisce of your beauty…. the taste of my skin
confirms your sweet taste that was left deep within my soul and released
through my pores once you touched me again….. It is there we meet and smile as
we look into each others eyes…. And dream what is always remembered……
Entry for April 02, 2007
MAN ARE YOU WILLING!
Recently, there has been
a great focus on the single, and why are black men are leaving the black family
not due to crime, the criminal justice system, or poverty, but by social
nuances (generated by our own culture) which unknowingly open the door for men
to 'leave,' but often leave a guilty conscience to the embattled 'family'
champion ,,black mother, identifying the trials and tribulations she must
tolerate in her efforts to be a good parent. And hold the core of all her
pain... that lets her look but don't touch. However, this discussion has
neglected another individual in today's world of less than lasting
relationships. The unwed, single, childless brother that attaches himself to a
single-mother family unit, and accepts the responsibility and privilege of
entering their world. So I ask you if your willing to step-up to the plate or
are you just looking in
By stepping up your
assumes this role in spite of the obvious obstacles and complexities that
litter this path. One most knows that to accept a woman, he must accept everything
that encompasses her world, her life and, above all, her children. Creating
that delicate mixture of tolerance, protectiveness and paternalism, while still
dealing with a world where confusion and frustration sometimes reign, is
nothing new for the single black man but it may be hard for a woman to just let
in. He must identify when to be the father figure and when to withdraw or
merely assume the role of adult. He must remain forthright and never overstep
his dual roles, not only with the children, but with the mother, as well. And
when the unfortunate break-up rears its head, he is forced to process the worst
experience imaginable: his separation from children he has become deeply,
emotionally attached to. Now, of course, critics can readily state, "If
you’re mature enough, you can still play an active role in their lives."
But there is still a void he must face. A slow realization that liberation is
not just from the outside, but from within. And for black men to really love
black women, they must be willing to let them go. No guilt; no hurt; no
worries. It is time for the black female to seek her own liberation. Time to
see what life has to offer and where a rainbow of luck and courage can take us.
Don't worry about us; we will be fine (most of all we need our men).
Nung, di reason som
people gi fi breaking up is, dem waant dem space, dem waan fi abstain fram sex,
yu nung fit ina dem plans no more, a don't luv yu anymore, a ave met somone
else, han besides, yu and me noh du tings di same way, or somtime dem jus plain
frickkle minded.
The family unit is the
most important characteristic of any community. It is the foundation we all
stem from. And we all must accept and support each and every member of our
community.
Response to you: My
experiences just did not begin today, yesterday, last year or many years, but
it is on-going…… Example #1: I, being a proud, educated, sometimes
understanding black man at times have its own down fall. I tend to steer from
negative black women due to they carry much unwanted baggage into the next
relationship. Which sometimes include; doubt, lack of consideration, putting
unwanted pressure on a man who in terms have in place established goals and
need a positive black woman to support his views no matter how unrealistic it
may be to her, anger brought into the new relationship that is usually hidden
beneath the surface of her gentle smile and touch, knowledge established from
other negative women who endorse that same view making it appear to be right,
and refusal to change with the times. Example #2: Out of 100% of black men out
there it is only 1% of them that are not doing what they are suppose to do.
Unfortunately they tend to live in the same area making it look like the
percentage is greater than it really is. Which sometimes include; I, living in
a predominate, single mother community have its negative effects on young black
men trying to relate to what is truth, what is built up anger from the black
woman’s past into that young black mans life, and when black pride should be
applied and against what odds. Example #3: I, living in that community am aware
that there are times that a single black woman need assistance in maintaining
structure, not only in the home, but around the home as well (just because that
black woman is not having a sexual relationship with a man doesn’t mean he can
not give positive advice and guidance), so I cut their lawn, pick up paper
around their home, and shovel snow before I leave for work (7:00am), not only a
trail, but, shovel the full walk way along with the driveway in the winter and
not with a snow blower. Now, these women have male children living in the home
and refuse to make those young black men get up in the morning and help, not
only myself, but, help other single black mothers with children as well. Most
black mother’s are not only spiteful with black men, but, with other black
women with children who in turn do nothing other than allow their children to
throw trash down on the streets and refuse to pick it up when a trash can is
only 6 to 15 feet away, sleep long hours until mid-afternoon, play computer
games when they get home from school until dark, talk on their phone until they
fall asleep, and hang out with other young black men who it turn have mother’s
who think in this same negative way. Now, who is spreading what to whom? I, in
turn, do complain to those mother’s which response is, let the landlord do it,
or, my child is doing something more important right now, and, we didn’t throw
it down why should we pick it up? Now, should I spread that same negative
awareness to other young black men that come to me for advice and guidance?
Maybe. But I won’t due to I known that it is not the black man’s fault of his
short comings he is taught from someone…. And, who is his direct influence? His
mother, that same woman who say no to every positive black man who have tried
to be an impact but was refused. And how much should black men put up with and
for how long before he says “ Now I know why other black men treat them that
way…”
First of all I would
retrain your sense of thought to accept me into your life unconditionally.
Then, I would retrain you to please me the way Kings are pleased by their
wives. Of course, cooking would not be part of it because I would ensure that
all energy that you have comes from the most pure fruits, vegetables, and
grains... I would teach you how to be bathed by me, totally, and coated with
pleasant oils and fragrances so that all who come within range of your beauty
would also want you for themselves. And I would only touch you when all of
these things have been fulfilled with the gentlest of touches and kisses from
your toes to the nap of your neck…… Then I would send you out so that all the
world would learn what I have done to you to make you that woman of every man’s
dream…… And I would call out to you as a hawk is called to perch itself by my
side…… to be sent out again….. to deliver the message of how great it is to be
loved by a King……
I loved this part:
“…..what there do is just
a mirror of what we are and if we look in the rear view mirror all you'll see
is the a true representation or description of one self....and if our children
are just a convex mirror, so named because it's image is us, .. then it's only
right to say that's why black men treat the women the way they do today. Cuz
they have seen us(women) and our young will ways grow-up the way they
do(mother’s who push negative thoughts in the minds of our young black men),
but you know if we all change the men( and women ) in the mirror, then we will
change the minds of our young...(the way black young men grow up and treat
black women) “ Sorry for creating emphasis on certain points….. {smile}….
Isn’t life grand!!!!!
Just look around you….. Beautiful people of all kinds….. Now, what would make
everything perfect? …….. Imagine a group of Black men a total of 3000 gathered
together to form a strong alliance of business minded men out to accomplish one
thing…. Total independence from women’s rule and control…… How would you feel
about that? This impact will affect the way men will view women for the next
300 years…. Young men will be groomed based on there ability to focus on what
administrative actions will be applied to future young men….. Now with this,
young men will no longer depend on negative thinking women or men who hinder
them from moving into their next level of life as strong dependable male
youths. These young men will automatically engage into activities that will
allow them to bond together and form other male groups that will push men into
a more corporate role in black businesses. These young men will employ
themselves into black owned and controlled businesses once receiving their
degrees in selected fields of interest that will keep them in control of their
future. These men will no longer inquire sexual activity or the need to be
embraced by feminine compassions which also distracts focus…… Each of these
selected men would meet and marry women selected by the total to ensure that
the man would stay in control of his future and not be swayed into any other
act or acts…….
How would this affect
your life today if this was implemented 50 years ago? How would your community
be today? How would your daughter’s be today? Think about it…..
Hello My Egyptian Queens,
I just wanted to know if you would like to come by and visit an adult site
which will allow you and your friends to interact with more educated men and
women. I don’t mean to intrude but I would like for you to come out and join us
and maybe add a few comments to my site giving some advice to some of the men
who are at times shy and protected about going out to most sites…. The
conversations are very toned and interesting in nature…. My site is:
http://s13.invisionfree.com/ShephardFamily/index.php?act=idx/
While looking into your
eyes I see the alignment of planets that only mean one thing, it is time for
you to become what you have dreamed of becoming… a woman…… But who is it that
sore off into the heavens meeting the stars to find you? My eyes have looked
into the night sky only to realize there are many sure mysteries hidden which
only lead me into your heart……. I explore your mind and soul knowing that all
things cannot be revealed until we meet… But, shall our meeting be as my dreams
of you have been while yarning what I can never reach…… I extend my
hand….reaching for you….. wanting you in my life only to find out that you are
not there but in the arms of another……. I kneel down from a distance…… as a
King prepare for his vows to conquer all that is before him…. And tears touch
my cheeks…… redding my lips and blowing each and every kiss only to you….. I
will never touch you again…….
Okay, here it goes. I
will try to dip down deep into something that’s more precious than a woman’s
eyes looking at me while guessing “if love really exists”. Friends, yes, it is
a very powerful word if used loosely, I tried to be friends with many persons,
knowing, that my friendship only extends as far as my desire to be wanted or
needed and then it cuts off. You, my dear, is very special, in your words and
gestures of things needed and sought for. Is it me or is it your love that
reaches deep into the heart’s of that men who really need you by their side….
My heart cry’s for you, or should I say, a woman who wear your identical
attire, in body and in style. Yes, my dear, you are truly a gift….. That same
gift that was once desired to be and placed under that same tree on Christmas
day…. Each and everyday of my adult life…. Friends, how lovely it would be to
have a person such as your self looking into my eyes knowing only you reside
there… Friends, how powerful a word to be used on both points of the spectrum….
There is love in friendship….. And that same love can be intertwined into
something very evil….. How haunting it is… knowing, that a woman as your self
exist in the eyes of many….. My heart sits still and wait……. Yes, my dear you
are a gift……
I have not always been a
very good father or dad. But have tried to relate information to the mother of
the child to try to come to a reasonable solution. Men are not always
understanding along with women. An Abusive Relationship can be either physical
or Psychological. Now, men are usually slower in maturing. This reason may be
to the fact that most men try to recapture their childhood desires while
watching older adults do their thing when they were young. What I mean by this
is, older men just as myself, who are established financially and socially,
tend to get the cream of the crop while meeting women. Younger males see this
and their desires become more and more apparent once they are able to
understand why these older men escort these beautiful women….. “Money” . You
need money to get what you want and it helps to have an education to put
yourself in a position to answer question that will allow that woman to come to
the man when questions or doubt arise in her mind. In these times most women
find it easier to bail out of a relationship instead of trying to work it out
with the man. Now, if a child is in the middle this it puts more stain on the
man knowing that he will be forced into a situation that will indirectly take
needed finances out of his pocket and into the pocket of the woman who had a
short fuse. Women are naturally, mentally, abusive while men become physically
abusive, this is because, women know that she have an ace in the hole with the
Friend of the Court when most men not truly understanding their rights within
the Friend of the Court get frustrated and run. Now, while all this is going on
the child is observing the reactions of both parents and learns from this. Will
this affect the child overall psychological state? Yes, not only does it affect
the child ability to deal with future situations but they will grow up looking
for an easy way out of very simple situations. What happens when the woman is
very verbally abusive to the man and the man keeps his mouth closed and his
hands to himself at what point is he the victim? It doesn’t matter what level
of verbal abuse that the woman gives to the man but what effect it has on all
parties. Most women look at their actions and reactions as minor and harmless
toward the man and it is just the way women express themselves and the man
should be strong enough to just walk away no matter what the woman says or do to
him…… When is the man a weak man and when is he a strong man in this situation?
The purpose of this
correspondence is to find out who is setting our trends for the young men
growing up into our society? Pink shirts? Tight jeans? Ear rings in your ears?
Tongue rings? What are we trying to gesture? Now, when I was young in years the
ones who set the trends for men were the ones who made the rough money and
those tough guys made it clear that there will be no funny business while among
us. Well, as we all know the Hip-Hop generation led most of us astray just as
the 70’s fads, with the butter fly collars and the sweetish knits with the
stitch on the side with the high stack shoes….. As I watched television the
past weekend while surfing the channels all I could see was mocked men who
talked with high pitched voices while their hands and body gestures clearly
indicated that possibly we as men should use a little discretion while deciding
who is setting the trends for us as men in fashion. To go out and face some of
these beautiful ladies that we try so earnestly to attract sometimes challenge
us into believing that what seems cute to one person may be a little extreme to
another. Comfortable about one’s manhood? Give me a break!!!!!!! Who made up
the statement and put it into our minds that it is okay to be different while
appearing something totally different in the eyes of another looking at you
from afar? Well, being a good, strong, understanding, knowledgeable, well
versed man has its challenges while amongst women who acts as if it is okay to
look gay and not be as long as you are comfortable with your manhood…… GIVE ME
A BREAK!!!!!! Don’t believe that!!! Being a strong man has a strong advantage.
Being a strong man means measuring up your fashion taste without the guidance
of a woman who thinks everything looks cute and states that it looks bold on
you only to be approached by a less desirable man who does double dipping among
his own sex. Men, bold colors doesn’t mean looking questionable, it means
looking as if you are going to make some money however you may do it among men
who also support your idea in fashion which matches with what you are going out
to do. Pimps, wear pimp like clothes, Gangsters, wear gangster like clothes,
Whores, wear whore like clothes, and so on…. If you look it, it doesn’t mean
that you do it, just that you appear that you are playing the part…
Okay, my Egyptian Queens.
Now, let me describe to you what a woman in love is like on my side of town and
then a man. The examples are based on how I was turned into a man I am by the
game.
First, most men grow into
what they are based on what women they were exposed to during their life time.
For example, boys who mother’s protected them from working too hard which is
imposed on that child by a hard working man; This over-protected boy will grow
up thinking a woman will always be there to save him, this is why some brothers
get comfortable while with a woman who falls in love with him; He feels as if
this woman loves him like his mama. Then the hard working man who was raised to
respect nothing but the out come of money will put women on the back burner
until he have achieved what is necessary to get her attention full-time; Most
women exposed to this type of brother reverse the table on him by staying at
home and enjoying the fruits of her so-called labor, this causes the brother to
feel that he is married to her and expect her to act as if she is his wife.
Women can be confusing and most of them are. Most boys never get a man’s
perspective of how to be a man, because, there are few of us around to instill
the type of discipline necessary to make him what he should be. Once he becomes
what he should be as a man most women can’t deal with him because a strong man
will restructure his kingdom the way he sees fit and not based on what a woman
sees. Now, this is the conflict. A woman usually brain-wash a young under
knowledgeable brother into thinking that to be a man he must consider what a
woman thinks…. NOT!!!!!! If he got his stuff together, financially,
academically, and physically then when he meet that woman there is only one
thing that can be shown to him to gain his attention……. What she can do for him
to keep himself focused on her while he is not in her presence. Men should not
need to depend on a woman for anything other than companionship, he should be
set concerning all other areas. If he can not do it himself and get it then he
should not have it, anything else is just extra things for him to play with.
I’m not saying that a woman shouldn’t help her man, some men need that, but
don’t complain if your efforts out-weigh your results. Understand this, if you
want to be part of his world you have to be part of his ideas. This means, what
he consider a woman is, what a woman mean in his life, what he has accomplished
to that date in his life, the out-come of self imposed goals leading up to the
point where he met you, and what he is willing to do in the community a (pick
up paper around the neighborhood whether or not he put it there) and if he
stands tall along with other men (successful men) who thinks as he does and
support a man’s cause even if it conflicts with what most women thinks.
Together with this will he be a true man as I see it. Most women do not and
will not support this idea due to the strict nature of the out-come, most women
do not and will not allow their sons to be aggressively groomed in this fashion
because of the tenderness of woman’s heart for that boy child.
It is your gentle touch
that bring on my desire, It is your whisper that settles my mind, It is you
sweet smell that arouse my dreams, It is your first kiss that moistens my lips,
It is the pose of your expression from when your dreams are fulfilled and the
explosion of your love flowing down from your thighs that brings me closer to
you….. It is there your name is called and your answer is revealed….. It is I,
extended above you, as a warrior, arms stretched out, as a howling wolf, that
calls on your emotions that only my love, given to you only keeps you near
me……. It is that love, which only I know, generates you and places you where
only dreams come true…….
Men are not control
freaks neither am I. I just know how to stabilize my own home. A man who does
not have order in his home is not a man. Once a man loose control of who he is
in the home other men will not respect him. I’ve seen it time and time again,
women who control what a man does and when he tries to do something that he
really wants even though that woman does not understand it and the woman
disapprove of it suddenly then he decides not to do it, that is a sign of a
weak man. And when a man jumps on a woman’s side just to gain favor is another
sign of a weak man. While men are talking or discussing anything as men a woman
should not come in between them trying to shift their decisions, another sign
of a weak man. Men should come to their own conclusions without a woman’s input
then once their decisions have been made then those men should bring that
decision to his household as a rule. This will prevent men from engaging into
offensive or defensive actions against their neighbors. Men should be willing
to sit down and discuss whatever the issue is without fighting or prepping for
a fight. I have seen many men shot and killed because they try to intimidate
each other for the love or attention of a woman, another sign of a weak man.
Men arguing in front of women because one feel that the other disrespected him
in front a woman, another sign of a weak man. Men arguing with each other for
non educated reasons, another sign of a weak man. Don’t get me wrong I fall in
one or two of these categories but I am trying to improve my position as a man,
making me a stronger man, so that I can better enable myself to be a stronger
man mentally and psychologically in front of all women and children in hope
that it will improve their ability to deal with each other in the future.
This is going to be sort
of long but I know that most women will not agree due to differences that they
may have with how a man thinks.
Well, let me explain to
you this, I love a woman and respect them. Some women are so caught-up on the
women’s movement that they forget that their man is left behind in what he
likes and what makes him comfortable. I am not saying that just to be
self-centered but to allow women to understand that men do not mean harm by
being so possessive in what they have or like to have. Most men want a nice
home, a beautiful wife (not only outside), a woman that tries to sexually
please him, if desired, and willing to try new things. Women, don’t be that
preserved little wife that only do things in bed that the Pope only approve of,
that will not keep your man, at least not in your bedroom. Most men go out of
the home not to find extra game but to compete with other men who are trying to
gain other women’s attention (not sex, it may happen, but it is not the goal).
Stop thinking, “….if I do it what would he think…” Or, “…..if he does it so
will I…..” Most men look at things as their own, just as fathers try to protect
their daughters or women try to protect their sons, men apply that same logic
to his marriage or woman and so forth. It is in a man’s nature to be dominate
and aggressive, whether it is physically or mentally, if he is not maybe you
need to check what his true preference of sexuality maybe (hopefully it is not
double dipping in the same tank, if you know what I mean). Most women have been
through a lot I can agree with that. But, although this may be true if you have
a son you must be willing to let him go and to be a man or he will grow into
that same jerk that you hate. Their mother’s over protects most boys as youths
because the mother’s do not want their son’s to be influenced by the wrong type
of crowd. Okay, I agree with that, but what do you think happens after you are
out of his life when he is a man…. Most men ask other men what would they do if
a women does…….. and etc. Men need to get a man’s point of view about women not
from women. This stands true about when a man ask you what makes a woman
attracted to a man. We must learn from our own mistakes and quit cutting
corners when we come up against obstacles. A man-child must learn from a man at
some point and you must learn when that time comes. You must also understand
that you are not losing your baby but gaining a man, cut him loose at a young
age, most boys start being curious about life and what if entails at a very
young age, younger than what you think. Boys usually start noticing his ability
to be a man at around 6 years of age through 15 years of age, some younger.
Stop saying this is my baby and say this is my little man and tell the man
child to “start acting like a man” not “your a big boy now” this causes the
young man to revert back to that baby stage, crying when he can’t get something
or can not get his way. It’s okay to work the crap out of boys they won’t die!!
Make that young man responsible by keeping him busy at all times, time is to
short, and before you know it he will be a teenager and will become rebellious.
Once this happen most women blame that fact that the young man’s father was not
around to show him how to be a man (hint, hint) let him go at a young age, let
a man groom him, work the crap out of him like your father’s and grandfathers
did to their children and they turned out okay.
Teach him young and he
will become that man that you say you want today, just think, the men that
misused you was raise by some woman who tried to make him into a man but
failed. Then that same man became your husband or man friend and he
disappointed you. Why? Don’t use your kids as puns to manipulate the world of
men because you will be dumping that young man into some woman’s lap.
These points are based on
a man who have at least two years of college, or working full time with Medical
and Dental Benefits, an income of at least $24,000 to $35,000.00 per year, Drug
Free, lives by himself, completely furnished home/apartment, has his own car
and car insurance, have at least $2000.00 of his own in the bank, and a
productive citizen in his own community.
1. A woman that is
educated and working full time. (at least two years of college or have some
type of technical education.)
2. Does not need a man’s
income but it helps to satisfy her overall goal in life.
3. Doesn’t wait until she
is told to cook, clean, or pamper a man.
4. Can cook a meal that
takes longer than 20 minutes to prepare. ( More than 3 types of food on the
plate and not from a box!!! Or not say just add water)
5. Can shop for her man
and bring something home other than what the kids like.
6. Can drive a car
without putting on make-up.
7. Drives the speed
limit.
8. Can be a lady but a
whore in the bed.
9. Can wash clothes ( and
use dark, light, whites, delicate cycles)
10. Knows when to shut up
even when she feels she is right. (Just because you think it doesn’t mean it
makes sense)
11. Knows that her dress
code doesn’t only affect her co-workers but also the overall view of what
people think about her man.
I was a thug while
growing up in Detroit (Westside-Dexter/Calvert) all my life and have seen what
women can do. Money is a major factor, when money gets tight and jobs are
scarce for women. When men control the streets and women are getting laid off
due to whatever, their only recourse is to go back to whence they came or they
will come to us for support. Most working class during that time didn't want to
be involved with the unemployed woman because they were begging and causing
much drama for them. But for guys like I was, loving trouble and the thug life
had the money to give them for a price and they did whatever to feed themselves
and their family (including their husbands). I had lost respect for most women
(not all, once I got to know them my thoughts changed) and did not trust them.
I have seen many of my friends get set-up by women and now they are dead, or in
prison or started using drugs, so now I am cautious about them. But you got to
love them.... That is why I work hard and play hard, so that, if a woman ask me
for some money I have it to give them if necessary (This is to keep some of
them from getting it from drug dealers or hustlers). Cat Daddy For Real!!!!!
Let’s get to the point……
We all are not Christians and do not want to be judged as one so stop saying
that it is a sin! Secondly, there is not a law prohibiting a married man from
having more than one woman just another wife, it is moral issue not a spiritual
one for the men who are not Christians! Lastly, men are becoming more and more
reluctant to give total control to a woman due to the fact that women have
total control over the mans life after marriage or else he will pay for
whatever he did with all his money or part of it (3/4 of his income). So, men
before you decide to marry take this into consideration, ensure that you are in
total control of your relationship no questions about it, and for all other
women you meet who are totally against it….. just ignore them, there are 10
women to every 1 man on earth, there are more women without a man than there
are cars on the streets all around the world…… (Think about it!)
1. Don’t lie about your
marriage to the other woman, it will only get worse.
2. Ensure that you have a
good paying job with all the benefits, women tend to focus on men who are self
sufficient.
3. Pay your own bills as
well as all of your wife bills, it will keep her from saying “ I paid for
that!…”
4. Make sure that your
future wife has a good job, a begging or broke woman will only cause you more
problems.
5. Think about yourself
first, make sure that you have all the bells and whistler (Car, nice clothes,
college education (at least two years), job, health and life insurance, at
least $3000.00 in your bank account, not joined), good credit rating, and money
in your pocket.
6. If you are going to
the clubs, bar and grills, cabaret, disco, dinner clubs, musicals, theatrical
plays, or just out for hours at a time by yourself, keep that schedule no
matter how guilty you may feel, you won’t regret it in the end!!!
7. Don’t give up your
lady friends and don’t force her to give up hers!!!!
8. Stay away from church
it only confuses the situation, read the bible instead, pray to God and ask him
what He thinks, if God doesn’t answer then it must be okay!!!
9. Cook, wash, and
clean-up yourself don’t wait for anyone to do it for you, this will keep your
edge on how you want things to be!!!
10. Don’t talk back to
your woman it only delay what you want to do, wait until she is finished
arguing then leave, let her know where you are going and let her come if she
wants, women like competition so make it challenging, be romantic at all times.
11. Wear protection,
don’t take anyone serious, and keep in mind “There Is More Where They Come
From!!!”
Long distance
relationships are great if you are involved with someone who is will to come
down and be with you occasionally. Constant conversations helps and the small
gifts that are mailed or flowers to you until it can be arranged to meet is
always a attention getter. How often are you capable of seeing the person must
be realistic on both sides of the relationship cements the desire to meet more
often and when you meet with that special person don’t let small talk interfere
with what the relationship is all about… Get busy first, go out dancing, go for
long romantic walks, then get busy again!!!! Sometimes when people are in
distant relationships they tend to search for disqualifying reason to leave
that person alone because they are just curious. Don’t let that be a factor,
don’t ask to many question or probe into what was going on while that person was
away from you that is a for sure way to destroy whatever you were trying to
do……
There are many ways to
deal with your situation. Most women are in relationships for more than what
the man is in it for. Men tend to ignore the signs that women give them for
comfort, love, and security. Women tend to try harder than men to keep the
relationship strong, when men tend to leave most concerns about how serious the
relationship is to that woman. Most men, working class men, really don’t want
to be worried about what is going on around the house and feels that their
mate, wife, girl friend, or whatever the status that man has put that women in
to do most parts of raising that kids, cleaning the house, doing dishes,
shopping for food,…..etc. most men are incompetent during their first 30 years
of adult hood and tend to depend on the woman to pick up the slack when things
get tough relieving them of much of the strain. When a woman start to become
overloaded she start to push some of the task over to the man and the man not
realizing what to do freezes up and rebel. This leads to abusive behavior and
communication.
Finding out how competent
your mate is from the beginning by approaching them with realistic situations
will allow that man to slowly deal with his lack of knowledge and start
planning on ways to correct that issue. Don’t confront him with current issues
ask him what would he do if ……..? Or, what makes you upset when………? Plan out
your conversations and have concrete solutions that he can handle without
feeling victimizing him.
Love is a strange thing,
as well as holding on to someone that you truly love. Everything has challenges
as well as staying in a relationship that needs more time to grow. It is
agreed, although it took me a long time to agree that men need more time to
mature, learn to respect women who in turn are bitter and groomed not to trust
men. Men do try to love but the fact is that most women come into a relationship
with the concept that a man will be unfaithful. Well, this is true for some not
all. It is just like religious type people who go to church, say that their
faith is in tact, and are unwilling to give a man a chance with prayer for him
to change into what that woman prays to God for. It like saying ……” I trust you
God but on my own terms”. We are all victims and need to be taught to respect
each others feelings although hard, it must be done without reservation. I want
you to understand it is not about who believes in God the most because everyone
reads the Bible but unwilling to follow it word to word in fear that God may
let us down, not directly but through efforts of their own. You must also
understand that women are partially to blame for the confusion that men have
about committing themselves into a positive relationship with a woman. Most men
are from single parent homes where the woman is totally in control of that
man-child’s life and as he gets older he realizes that he need to be stronger
and more in control of his own feelings. Now, how can this be if women are
still victimizing men? Most men are only grown boys just released from their
mother’s who in turn protected them from any pressure that he may have needed
to be a man. Now here comes that special woman that just sweeps him off his
feet….. The BLAM!!!!!! She portrays him…. Now what do you think that man-child
is going to do the next time he meets a woman? He is going to protect his self
by putting a buffer between himself and that woman, which is usually with
another additional woman. Men look at women as their daughters once they are
with them and try to treat them as such because this is what most women come
from, a father who protected them and now he is trying to be that same man.
DEARLY beloved, I am here
today in the sight of all my hommies, my girl and her hommies, and in the face
of this company whom we elected that I get together with this Woman in a
part-time relationship; which is an honorable estate as I see fit, signifying
unto us the mystical union that is between myself and this beautiful Mistress
which body is adorned by me and perhaps many others and the first miracle is
that I have seen her and now she wishes to be also by my side until she chooses
to leave, and therefore is not by any other man to be entered into unadvisedly
with her or lightly; but reverently, discreetly, advisedly, soberly, and in the
fear of me finding out if she is unloyal. Into this relation this additional
woman standing right here next to me has come now to be joined and will
continue to be with me. If any man can show just cause, why me and my now
mistress may not be joined together, let him now speak, or else hereafter for
ever hold his peace.
I [Man’s
Name]__________________________ have this Woman to be my mistress, to live
together if necessary or get together at a agreed place, will equally love her,
comfort her, honour, and keep her in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all
others trying to join with me other than social activities, keep her and only
unto her or others that have likewise signed a like contract with me and my
wife if I am married, so long as both of us shall stay truthful or the
relationship gets to boring.
I [Woman’s
Name]__________________________ have this Married Man to be my only man, to
live together or meet in a agreed place of his choosing, without questioning
him, will make love to him, comfort him, honour, and keep him in sickness and
in health; and, forsaking all others, keep only unto him, so long as he shall
want me or until he decides to leave me.
[Then shall they give
their trust to each other in this manner.] The Man, receiving his Mistress at
her agreement or will take her hand, and she shall take the Man hand and to say
after him as followeth.
I [Man’s
Name]__________________________ take thee [Woman’s
Name]__________________________ to be my Mistress, to have and to hold from
this day forward, for better not worse, for richer not poorer, in sickness and
in health, to love and to cherish, until you push this relation part and until
I feel that I can no longer trust you.
[ Then shall they loose
their hands; and the Woman with her right hand taking the Man by his right
hand, shall likewise say ]
I [Woman’s
Name]__________________________ take thee [Man’s
Name]__________________________ to be my main and only man, to have and to hold
from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness
and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, or until you feel
that it is necessary to leave me and until you lose your trust for me whatever
the reason.
Then shall the woman join
her right hand together with his, and say,
Those whom my Man hath
joined together let no man put asunder.
Signature of Woman:
_____________________________ Date:__________
This contract is voided
after three months and shall not be used to reflect any relationships by me or
the mistress hereon three months after the date and time signed below.
All money, gifts, cars,
homes, jewelry, credit cards, businesses started with money I have given you,
or created by me for you while this relationship was going on will be returned
along with all receipts entitling you to possession of any property that may be
transferred to another other than myself will be returned to me without
question at the given time and place designated by myself or whom ever I elect.
Name of
Man:_________________________________ Date:_________
Name of
woman:______________________________ Date:___________
Witness:
_______________________________________Date:_________
I know, I know, I know…..
some people, even liberals don’t agree with the method of spanking the little
ones. But what if that child has the potential of harming another child or even
taking someone else life? What are you going to do wait until that happens so
that you can say….” I don’t know what went wrong????….. He/She was such a good
child…….” But all of us know that your child has always been bad or mischievous
while growing up and when we told you that your child was doing something bad
you got offended and told us to mind our own business….. Now that your child is
in prison or dead what advice can you give others that may be headed in that
same direction that you were in? Are you going to sit back and let that child
die or go to prison just like your child had done? What type of person are you
now?
The first chance we get.
Don’t let your child get out of control because your child is growing up faster
than you can imagine and one day your child we get upset with you and leave
your home and go out to do those same things that you allowed them to do but
this time the person that they are facing will not tolerate their behavior as
you did and will deal with them accordingly. Now what? Where will you be when
your child is at the end of a gun or knife? Well, the county coroner will
contact you soon enough. Don’t lose your child because you feel that your child
will get mad at you if you discipline them. Your child’s anger is just a phase
of life that every one of us must go through and it will allow us to manage the
different pressures that life brings to each and everyone of us. Some of us
have been abused. That doesn’t mean that your child will suffer the same fate.
Deal with your child now, push your child to the limit so that they will be
able to face all sorts of challenges when they grow up and be able to conquer
them.
Now, how must we
discipline our child without going to jail? First inform your child that for
each year that they have been on this earth while under your roof and you are
providing support for them will entitle them to one lick of the belt. Each
reoccurrence will be grant them 10 additional licks with the belt. Lay them
across the bed, feet on the floor and give them a chance to adjust themselves
for each lick of the belt, but don’t let them delay the punishment. Allow them
to prepare themselves for the next lick of the belt for 10 seconds then
continue. You don’t have to spank them child hard because it is the thought of
the spanking that affects them as well as the lick of the belt itself. Be firm
with your child and tell them why they were spanked afterwards. Give your child
the chance to improve themselves, tell them that every day you want a report
written by them of all activity at school, tell them you want them to improve
and to follow the guidelines that you set or you will give them 10 licks with
the belt each day that they do not comply. All children do not have to be given
a spanking so monitor what the child does before you consider it. Some children
want attention so talk to them and see what is on their minds and as they get
older talking and allow them to make decision will cause them to understand the
mistakes that were made and work them out with you. All these methods work and
are effective. Love for you child doesn’t mean to let them grow into criminals
or disruptive citizens that will also push them into being unproductive persons
in the future.
I was communicating with
a brother today while riding on the bus about how the religious movement has
totally confused most black men and women into believing the only hope is to
sit idly while the hopes that someone will save them without any effort of
their own behave. While the young man and I was talk a young woman turned to me
and said show me what you have said in the bible while handing me the Holy
Bible. I in turn said show me in the bible that Christopher Columbus discovered
America. All things are not in the bible due to the fact that most information
written during that time was totally for the poor and illiterate. Most
information was constructed to keep rebellion from happening and to give the
majority of the believers a false sense of hope. I even proves true for today
when most information have been written to keep the wealth in the hands of the
truly protected (If you know what I mean.). Our society have been victims to
Identity theft for hundreds of years through our government without our
knowledge by using the poor information to secure loans for the wealthy. How is
this done? Well, if you were a billionaire and you have, let’s say, 1,000
persons identification information then borrowed money against that information
guaranteeing that amount is and will be secured as long as you back it any
money loaned to you will be secured against those persons. Any amount owed
directly by that person would not be secured so that individual will still have
an outstanding balance against them if one exist. That person would not ever
know that monies were barrowed against their identify due to that fact the
transaction happened so far up in the financial link it was as that transaction
never happened. Just as religion have changed from it’s original form to a form
that has been accepted from past generations because it has been said that the
information passed on to them is true and the vibrations felt from this belief
is from the Holy Ghost. Anyone’s mind can be stimulated if enough energy is put
toward that success and if that person truly believe that success will heighten
their financial welfare, peace of mind, or health, again, that stimulation will
surface. Look at any religion, what stimulate them to push on into truly
believing in their form of God? Is it stimulation? I know so. Just as the
letter “J”. When was it created? If you research this letter you will find out
that the letter “J” is only about 500 years old. Now where did they get the
word Jesus? We must understand that research is very important toward our
advancement into heaven and not ignorance. We must understand it was those
persons that were afraid that the human race would become more knowledgeable
and educated and then ion those facts imposed on our ancestors due to ignorance
by these past so called educators of truth. These forms of enslavement must me
broken and start a new form of freedom structured by the heart and not the mind
of those who fear of losing their wealth to what they consider a lower class of
people.
You know that it is wrong
to date a minor due to the fact that our society protects children so that
perhaps they will grow up to become productive citizens within our communities.
By disrupting their way of life and exposing them to such acts at an early age
changes their perspective on life and what perhaps they want for their future.
Suggesting to a minor or exposing them to sexual acts at a young age not only
put your future children or neighbors child at risk of being assaulted during
those same years, but causes the young adult to place sex in front of positive
things in their life when possibly you may want them to focus on school. I
don’t know about most of you or possibly a few of you, but I want to grow old
knowing that these children do not have sex, or only sex on their minds. Or,
perhaps they will fall short of focusing on a more positive life style and go
out and commit crimes against a young child, which will change their projective
in life causing them to pursue other crimes, which may lead them to commit a
crime against you! I feel that if a older man or woman, possibly between 18 and
25 or through 35, (let’s say, while he or she is commuting to college or work),
who may be exposed to young people, going to school or to a part-time job after
school, and these young adults put themselves in harms way just to find an
identify in life without really knowing the consciences it will have on their life
or others in the future. These young adults should be aware of who is or will
become the victim once they go out trying to “get their groove on”. These
desires (I’m talking about the young people) promote other desires not related
to the sex part but the desire to challenge other needs as well, such as, the
need to appear better than they are through materialistic things. I know that
most children grow up displaying the need to be identified through sensual and
seductive apparel and tight clothes that will attract the strongest person.
Parents usually want their kids to look nice and want the other teens to desire
them while they are out and about. But is it a message that we really want to
put out there through our children so that older persons change their
perspective of who they would prefer to approach on the street. Yes it does
change the older person’s perspective. The average woman or man does not
initially go out in the morning saying that they are going to commit a crime
against a minor (15 – 18). But I know that young adults put their selves out
there to be approached and their parents tends to loose control of the ones who
get caught up in the sex thing. Most people say “ They should be ashamed of
themselves for doing such a thing…..” but fail to understand why the initial
act was committed. We see how these young adults (a minor from 15 – 18 years of
age) go out and about flaunting their selves around to entice anyone who comes
around. We all know that 98% of most young people want to attract persons their
age just for fun and games or for companionship. But the 2% of them which
reflects the overall outlook of the total bunch causes the atmosphere of …” if
one will another will to….”and the list goes on….
Okay, what do a woman
really want to see when she is out and about? Most men have tried everything
from buying that expensive suit, shirt, shoes, and tie to cologne. Hair cuts,
beard trim of different styles to cooking that gourmet meal and bringing it into
work so that possibly that special woman will taste it and inadvertently
approach the man and ask him to invite her over for a special course of meal
and a couple of glasses of wine. But what do it really take to cause a woman to
fall into a man’s arms and make passionate love to him, secretively, without
any recourse or commitment?
Men, if you really want
to gain a woman’s attention just do it in style. I know there will be women who
will say just be yourself and it will happen, of course, men do not have that
type of time especially those who are in their late 30’s and 40’s. We want to
be creative and appealing always. We don’t want to appear as old or over the
hill. We want the same respect and affection as the time we first saw that
beautiful woman standing at the bus stop on her way to work, or that woman
walking in the mall looking beautiful and smelling wonderful when we were
sixteen years of age. We want that type of woman right now and we don’t want to
wait six to eight months to get it. We want that beautiful woman to want us now
no matter what. We want her to sense our desire for her without spending a
fortune to get her. We don’t want to compete with that other guy who really can
afford her. We want the woman of our dreams to be next to us without question,
without the less attractive ones (beauty is in the eyes of it’s beholder)
embarrassing us into believing that we should be ashamed of ourselves for still
having sexual desires. Men, when you look into the mirror in the morning
prepare yourself to compete for that position in life that is guaranteed to us.
Don’t sway, don’t bow, don’t lean., be that what was and is given to you as a
man. Step out in the morning knowing that you are that man, that strong leader
that everyone wants to be with, look at yourself and imagine what would it take
or what a woman would want to see when see look at you. What would it take for
that beautiful woman to look at you while walking by and want you
unconditionally. Even when you are riding the bus or any other public
transportation, prepare yourself so that when a woman sits or stands next to
you the only thing that will be on her mind is …” I want to make love to that
man right now!!!!” Don’t show off, don’t over react in public just be patient
and wait. Believe me they are watching and wanting you. It may not be the one
who is in front of you right now or who may try to discourage you after reading
this forum but it is happening…. Set yourself up to be wanted, it is okay to
prepare yourself and place yourself somewhere where that woman will be…… she is
waiting for you…………
The way you look? The way
you smell when you are trying to attract or get his attention? The way you look
into his eyes when you really, really want him? Or, is it the way you satisfy
him in one of your wild, erotic, and steamy nights? Maybe it is the special
meal that you cooked that he just enjoys when he comes home from work or over
to spend some time with you?
Most men are just grown
boys wanting that same satisfaction he gets from their mother when they were
young. So, believe me, you are not going to replace the love he wants from his
mother. Most women want to satisfy their man but it seems that at times nothing
seems to work. Why? Let me explain to you this, a man must be taught how to
appreciate a woman and it doesn’t come from that long drawn out conversation
sometimes you may put on him to make him feel guilty. So, what is it that keep
him around? You feel that you are doing all the right things….. You are there
when he comes home, you even put that special something into his lunch so that
he remembers to call during lunch time or on his breaks. But why do men really
stick around? Some of you may not believe this but it is the natural desire of
this boy in a mans body and his desire to be hugged, loved, and looked after.
When a man does not have
a positive male role model in his life during his first ten years of life or
that structure from a man who put discipline into that child’s life then that
is what you end up with a man who is not sure where he wants to be in a woman’s
life.
Men are naturally
aggressive and when a man or someone of authority is not placed in front of
that boy child he will grow up believing that only a woman can provide for him.
Men can also provide love and comfort in a young child’s life if he is allowed
without debate from the mother how it should be applied. The woman raise the
child her way and the man should be allowed to raise the child his way no
questions about it.
Well, there are many ways
to gain the respect of a man, but, let me explain to you what the average man
wants from the woman. As every woman knows every man desire to have a very
beautiful woman and it is as hard as the imagination to keep her due to the
competition that is attached to every beautiful woman. Most men think that
women are naturally curious about things that she does not directly see or can
feel. If she can see it and feel it then she may believe it and most men know
this. So, while out and about most men try to create an image in the sight of a
woman that she desires so see or she may want to see. Most men know that this
attraction is short lived, only to be challenged by the appearance of a more
appealing man or the woman’s desire to be more pleased and satisfied by the
man. Men want to be touched, spoken to with easy and comforting conversation
from the woman. Most men will do what the woman ask only if she proves that she
can be trusted. The trust is not the trust that a woman holds against a man as
in being faithful or not cheating on her, but a man want the confidence of the
woman will be there when he needs her. This may seem hard for the woman since
most women have been hurt or tricked into believing one thing and the man
presents something totally different. This may not be due to the fact that the
man is being inconsiderate but he may refuse to believe that that particular
woman can be trusted no more than the woman who is put into place to set him
up. The trend of the 80’s is not dead. Most older men have told their sons that
“….. that woman only wants to trap you….by getting pregnant” or “…… that woman
only want you for your money…..”. Some women may think “….what money? He
doesn’t have any money to give me!”. This may be true now but what about their
father’s instruction or view of the average woman? These imagines are placed in
the Youngman’s head as a barrier to prevent him from being hurt or used by a
woman. There is one thing that I hate and that is to see a man who is truly
trying to please a woman by trying to do the right thing by the woman and is
taken advantage of by a woman who only want to see him suffer due to a bad
break up. I’ve seen this more than one occasion. Most men think this way they may
not say it but piss them off and watch what happens. So, ladies while at the
club or out and about if you see a man that you really want do what you usually
do to get his attention but when he’s listening tell him that it is okay to
trust you because you got the low down about the women who is out there to take
advantage of him. Once you say this watch his response.
There are some things
that I have tried and these things may work for you as well if you are the type
of person who can keep from exploding into a rage.
The first thing is that
all men should realize that most women are very possessive when it comes to men
or things that she feel was earned through hard work or a lot of effort. Women
don’t like to be told due to the fact that most women are intelligent enough to
figure out their own problems without you. So, convinced her that what she may
have done may require a different approach. This may take a while if you have
established a controlling and negative view with your woman. If you have done
this you may need to have the patience to watch your dream unfold.
If you are the type of
man who live at home with your mom and by some out of the way reason decide to
move in with a woman (Lord forbid) then you must understand that you are now
her property by proxy. Now, can you clean? Can you cook? Can you balance a
check book? What about provide comfort to kids if she have one or two? I hope
that you can answer each one of these questions with yes. If not then you are
about to enter a jungle of misunderstanding so you better be willing to learn
from her. Ask her what can you do to help out if you do not have a job or if
you do have a job ask her how would she like to divide up the bills. Note:
Never, Never, Never, give her less than 65% of your income to maintain the
household. Rule: Let her know upfront that your net bills are such and such.
And you need at least such and such to maintain yourself and what you own. This
will eliminate any problems, also, write them down, better yet type them out
and make two copies of the sheet and give her a copy. Keep track of your copy
and stick with the journal, so if you get a raise in pay you will be able to
keep the extras.
If there is one car and
she owns that car learn the public transportation and catch the bus frequently
so that she will not or you get comfortable with depending on her for
transportation and to everyone else it will appear that you are carrying your
own weight as a man. Get to know your woman friends and their mates so that it
is easier to find out when you are making mistakes or your woman is unhappy
with you or things that she may want and just feel that you should know. This
will keep you in good standing at all times.
Don’t do things that you
can’t keep doing over a six-month period. Starting romantic excursions just to
impress her when you know that you cannot continue to do it or afford it over a
long period of time will only make your relationship falter. Keep it real let
her know your status (if you are planning to keep her) so that when times get
tight she will understand why things are slowing down. Note: If you cannot save
up for a special moment then it is not worth doing right away. By using
unplanned money or income to do something when you do not have the bulk of
money to do it will only put you in debt. Women do not like an in debt or broke
man with a job!!!!!! So, save up for special moments and plan them out then
surprise her it will look more impressive when you are spending with no regard
of costs.
Try something new in bed
or while both of you are alone. Keep laughing and keep her laughing. One thing
a woman love is to be away from you and while alone flashes of funny moments
both of you have done which make her smile. I have seen women while just
sitting and working go into a trans smiling. These are the special moments that
will always stay with her.
Demand respect. Don’t be
her son!!!!!!!! Be her man!!!!! Stress that you want to accomplish most things,
that will not need her assistance, by yourself and it will be done strictly by
you…. She may not agree with this at first but keep her updated daily on your
progress and what you have accomplished this will give her comfort and
confidence in what you are doing alone.
Have you ever measured
the depth of your love... Can you take it? Can you explore what you see like a
professional? Or do you retreat like a child running from a unknown friendly
dog that just rushed out unexpectantly to meet them?
Well, come to me and let
me see what the heavens have denied me... Give me what the angels of Hell have
hid from me... Touch me so that all will know that you are meant to be by me...
Give me so that I will love you and never leave you... See me and explore what
life have given me.... You......
Well, let me explain this
to you. In the American communities there are several levels of struggles. One
of which a person tries to be someone they are not and the other who accepts
and know where they belong in society. Many black residents try to keep up with
what the European society has established for themselves and have structured
this society through many years of preparation. Most black Americans try to
compare themselves with this structure and find that there is a lack of funds
or economic stability within the black society to compete. Now, to answer your
question no it is not as bad as she puts it and yes there are American blacks
who try to compare themselves with the European way of life find themselves
struggling to keep up. By this, most black Americans seek help to bridge the
gap with governmental assistance. This assistance granted by our American
government analyzes these requests with those who do not need assistance. The
world is beautiful and we need to accept who we are here and now so that life
and all of it’s pleasures are fully appreciated.
I will try to enlighten
you on how I see things and it helps all the same…. Image yourself as a flower,
not yet spouted out of the ground but a seedling. As you are trapped in the
earth filled with nutrients and ingredients that will fulfill your every
essence you then begin to mature. This maturity strengthens you for what is
needed for you to survive in the world. You feed off this essence until you are
mature enough to sprout out of the ground to feel for the first time the rays
of the sun. It warms you, it nourishes you, it feed you all the vitamins needed
for you to grow and learn what is necessary to live above the protection of the
love that the earth has protected you from. Now, here you are exposed to other
threats such as, man walking on you, lawn mowers, animals that eat plants as
you are, and other things that will threaten your existence. Imagine what the
earth has proved and provide for you to grow into that beautiful flower. Also,
in you is what’s also needed to nourish others that need what is in you to grow
into something greater than what they are at that current state in time or
present time….. It seems bad in the beginning because you feel you have done so
much on your own to be were you are to cease to exist you have contributed to
the beauty to what is now seen by those around you, but as you mature and grow
you start to understand that it is not only beauty of you that play an important
part in life but it is what is in you that play an important part for the
survival of others growth….. Your father have shared and others must grow as
you have today and will continue to do so forever…. The knowledge that your
father absorbed from earth and the spirits of others have grown in him and he
have shared that knowledge with others and helped them grow into something more
beautiful than what once was….. Now, here you are a beautiful flower… watching
as that once beautiful flower that God has planted come of age… it has shown
and explored what a beautiful world this is and can be if only one will
continue to share and understand the cycle of life, not to destroy, but to
continue to grow and be that example what beauty really is and how one person
can effect others by their mare presence….. The casual viewer may not see
because they are weeds in a garden of many flowers which will be plucked up and
forgotten… But you my dear will live on to tell the story so others will grow
and learn from all of your experiences… God knows and understands all things
this is why you are to trust in him and put such things in his hands….. so you
to can comfort others who may go through the like situations…. seeing your
example and how you deal with life’s challenges …… The angels are watching to
report it to God…….. I will always be here if you need a friend to talk to……
‘Good morning Tonya,
I just wanted to stop by
with this email to extend my deepest sympathy for your lost and heart felt
sorrow with a time of prayer and blessings. I know there have been many
approach of different sayings from either scriptures or words of wisdom. So, I
will not extend any sayings but will extend my personal wisdom and remorse to
you and your family. I just could not have imagined what it would be like to
feel the pain in which you felt so suddenly but my heart fell deeply because no
one can express nor phantom a world without someone that have been either so
supportive or loved by you so deeply. And now as your love extends without any
boundaries into the heavens the loved one that has been joined to you and now
joined unto God and the Heavenly host now sits in a Kingdom at the table
prepared for the chosen. Only God has all the answers and we only suspect what
it is that God plans but calls on each and every one of us to extend our love
and grace to prepare our loved one at the table of ever lasting life. It is you
who have made life so possible and it is you who have granted love in the form
of a key placed in the hands which now extends into the eyes of a child that
will forever be blessed and joined by you and God for life ever more. My family
and I extend our love and blessings to you and your family. ‘
I do remember the times
that we had together, looking into each others eyes while kissing gently on
your neck and shoulders.... I remember the look on your face as it shined when
your love exploded and your desire for me clinging against my body.... You are
and will always be a beautiful woman and the woman who have always come first
in my heart..... My touch, your embrace, your voice, the sound of the air
exhaling against my neck while keeping pace with the motion of each and every
stroke of the love that extends our mind into the next level of
satisfaction.... This my darling, is what makes you so real to me... now and
forever.....
Imagine. Imagine me.
Imagine me on your thoughts. Imagine me on your mind as you drift into a world
of dreams. Imagine me. Imagine me sitting next to you listening. Imagine me
listening to you while standing next to you in a world of dreams that you have
created to suspend you above all other things. Imagine me. Imagine me holding
your hand. Imagine me holding your hand looking into your eyes. Imagine me
looking into your eyes while you are listening to me unfold your dreams.
Imagine your dreams unfolding right before you while I am holding you in my
arms. Imagine me. Imagine me and you together. Imagine me and you together
holding each other closely. Imagine you holding me while you are lifted up into
a world that only exist in dreams that we have created now real. Imagine this
realness. Imagine this realness in my touch. Imagine the realness in my touch
while you are yet still dreaming. Imagine the dreams you have created and now
are real. Imagine me. Imagine me looking into your eyes as the sun awake you.
Imagine your eyes looking into mine. Imagine your eyes looking into mine as you
awake with a soft kiss delivered by my lips. Imagine me. Imagine my kiss.
Imagine you with me suspended in this state of mind forever. Imagine your
heart. Imagine your heart as it embraces mine. Imagine love. Imagine love as it
exists the very first time you awoke and saw me. Imagine the dream. Imagine the
dream that exposed the kiss. Imagine the dream that exposed the kiss that
awakened you. Imagine the smile. Imagine the smile that came from the kiss
prompt by the sun, delivered by a dream, held by my eyes connected to you as
you awoke with a soft kiss that suspended you into the heavens. Imagine me.
Imagine me standing next to you. Imagine me standing next to you with a wish.
Imagine me standing next to you with a wish of life. Imagine life as we both
share. Imagine life as we share with you lying next to me, motionless, wanting
me, needing me, lifting me, pulling me closer to you…… Imagine me.
If i were your woman you
would never get enough of me.I say that because i'm not just talking about sex.
You see, i am about more than sex.Although i must say you wouldn't get enough
of that either.I am an all natural woman, you don't have to add anything but
love to make me better.I don't wear make up,the nails you see are mine and my
hair is just as long. I may flirt, talk noise, get a little freaky with you,
but that's the fun side of me. I try to be happy, loving, caring, trusting and
a true friend. Flirting is in my nature, it's a part of me. Hell, i can't help
it. Enjoy it while you can. Once i meet the man god want's me to have, the fun
will be over. On a more serious note, i am a strong black woman. I've been
through the storms, the trial and tribulations of life. I thank god for each
and every heartache, heartbreak, dissappointments, the struggles and let downs
that i have been through, for it has made me a better and more complete person.
A strong,beautiful,godly woman, inside and out. I try to love everybody, if
they let me and even if they don't. Never know when it will be your last
breath. So just know, you are friends with a very intelligent, sexy, classy,
independent, woman. I love you all.....THICKALICIOUS....
Twist of Fate……. (Don't kick my azz for twisting this one)
A poem Written As A Gesture To All Men (From a Lady Friend)
The Response
A poem Written As A Gesture To All Men (From a Lady Friend)
The Response
If you were my woman I
would never get enough of you and that is because the air between us would be shared.
Our flesh would be as milk dripping from the mouth of a child after pulling the
bottle quickly from its mouth. Yes you see, you are more than sex to me,
because without dreams how could love extend itself into my arms then carried
to the room where only I evolve into a creation only meant for the Gods. Yes,
you are all natural woman, you don't have to add anything but love to make you
better. You don't need to wear make up, nor nails that are added to extend your
beauty. Yes I see, the beauty only meant for Queens. Your hair is long and
beautiful, it drifts and blows in the wind as a stallion race through the Great
Plains and the chief riding you proudly as a warrior should displaying his
position of authority. Yes you may flirt and talk at a pace of thunder, you may
even get in a mood that extends you into my arms. But, this is where you have
started with me, because without birth where would love go? You are and will be
always be those things that make you - “you” happy, loving, caring, trusting and
a friend through and through. Flirting is in your nature, it's a part of you I
see. What the Hell you can't help it what else brought you to me. I enjoy it
while you are passing through you gleam and shine in the light as you sleep I
watch you no need to say goodnight. Once you meet the man god want for you, the
fun will last forever, because sexy, nasty, sweaty is the course I that I have
planned for you. There’s no need to leave me on a serious note, I am a strong
black Man, I've also been through the storms of trial and tribulations that is
why God has prepared me just as “I AM”. And now God please forgive me for each
and every heartache and heartbreak that I pushed on you, but, from my rib God
created you for me to see YOU safe through and through. For now you are a
better woman I prayed to God this would come true, a strong, beautiful, godly
woman now you are just as “NEW”…. If you try to love everybody, if you let them
all in your life how would you love me truly because without you would be a
heavenly sin.. I never know when God give you your last breath so I stand on
guard next to you to challenge the Angel Gabrelle to leave you until I am
through with you. So just to let “You” know, that we are friends in a very
intelligent, sexy, classy, independent way, you are woman of character and I
will never leave you not ever no matter what you say. And, I love you to.....
Have you ever looked into
the eyes of a man whom you thought could not control your irresistible awe?
Have you ever wondered that if you gave your all that man may not understand
the unconditional love that you may share with him? Have you ever been held in
the arms of the one whom you thought would last forever? Have you ever smelled
a flower and remembered that fragrance a week, months, or even years later when
walking as it suddenly hit you again out of nowhere? Looking into your eyes
pulls me that way… Looking at your lips speaks to me that way….. Imagining you
next to me drains me into a direction only lovers dwell ……. To mix that with
love????? I don’t think so….. But??????
I had a dream, and it
flowed into a world of things that must be, but, yet not to come for a while…
As I looked I saw you standing in the distance, wind blowing through your hair
bringing the scent of morning flowers which stimulate the honey who calls out
to the bees that come to taste that taste which only you can produce. You stood
there and watched as I moved toward the sun which gives me strength to endure
you… it stimulates me…….. Your hand stretched out to me as your dress embraced
your sweet and lovely body as the wind moved around clamping, revealing only
what lovers see when they make love watching that candle light flicker….you
prompted my desire to touch you….. As I approached, only the Gods carried me to
you, lifting me, head long to a place where your kiss touched my lips and
caused me to quiver and gasp for that air which is taken when surprised…. It is
you who moisten my tongue with your lips slowly and carefully placing that last
remnant of what was once yours and left for me to ponder…. You touched my face
as you drifted further from me, leaving that touch, as honey is left from a
child’s hand, placed on that very spot that recalls its purpose on my body that
sings out to you never forgetting what was and will come again. With that kiss
which will be the kiss that will always be given to me as the first…..
Coincidental, okay now
that you wish for me to arouse your life cup and place drops of my sweet nectar
on the tip of your tongue be as a hummingbird and taste what has been prepared
and never given….. Place your legs on me so that any movement by you will only
cause deep impacting pleasure that comforts your stomach and crosses your eyes
with every breath that you take. Let the motion of my hips swing you, let the
wetness of my tongue soothe you…. Let the touch of my finger tips against your
spine stimulate your mind sending you into a world that forces you back in the
same direction that I pushed you while filling you up….. What is it now that
you desire?
Let Me bring you flowers,
Let Me know if you love me, Let Me know that you care…… My life is just a spot
on rotation around your heart, see me, want me, let me have my way. Was it yesterday
that we walked together holding hands while the rain dropped on our body’s as
honey dripping from the mouth of a bear that explores the hole which it is
found? Look into my eyes and a world that never existed will appear before
you...... Do you dream? In my eyes are the beginning of dreams that in turn
produce wonders, these wonders produce the burning desire to touch me, kiss me
as I lay back and slowly position myself so that you are able to kiss me slowly
and passionately until the closing of my eyes and dreams that explore what we
could do materialize into what we are doing. What is life that is not explored?
What is life that is not tasted? How could you love without being touched in
the ways that shifts your mind into what is never forgiven but yet chanced?
Touch me and draw from my heart what has never been experienced…. It is me who
reach out to you, drawing your heart near me, closer than you ever desired and
from this point on will ever again….. Are my kisses sincere? Are my hands that
warm your body simulating your heart? When will we kiss? As I stand at the
window of expectation I await for you to come to me……. My heart yarns….. My
tears burn as they expect your hands to touch my face and reveal to me that
life is never what is seems but is true and should be explored…… I reach out to
you and close my eyes to see and imagine the love that you left me the night
before…..
Do you know what wolves
mating sound like? Have you ever seen how the male wolf tracks down his mate?
How he pants around her smelling the sweet aroma of her desire to be pleased?
Watch him, as he traces her every move until she submit to his desire to mate
with her…… Watch as the midnight sky follows her to that very location where
she prepares herself to be pulled toward him until the motion of his hips
perfectly places her body where she will be penetrated with the burning lust of
what is needed forever more…. This first contact…. This love ……. This
expectation from one female to another is born then passed on to the next until
it is well understood by each female that this way of luring a mate is how it
all begins…… As we incline into the dream like state you look back at me
telling me how it feels to be in deep contact and with the one that only you
chose and the one that lead you to this place where you are now…. then placed
in a wonderful position to endure the pleasures that only I can bring……
What dictates who a man
is and what establishes him as such?
Who can claim to be
something that was not groomed by it that you were trying to be?
How can a child grow
inside of the womb without its host?
How can a seed fertilize
and grow without the rich soil that enfolds it?
My Brother Think….. You
are a man child so think as such, grow as such, and take control of your man
life as such.
My Brother Think…….
You can not represent
yourself without knowledge of whom or what you are. This is because from the
eyes of a child it only grows into what it sees… As an infant you learned to
love by and through a woman. As an infant you grew into a man child, as you
grew into that man child you shared his life and grew to determine by men and
by a child’s eyes that you will be made a man by what a man sees, what he have
learned from other men and once again challenged by other men who in turn
became men through the efforts on other men……. Now as a man who do you learn
from, yourself? I think not. If you learned through yourself your wealth would
over precede you in every way. But, my brother, you need another man to get you
where you are going, stop resisting what is a normal process of life…. Grow
into what you were born to be…. A MAN!!!!! Now, my Brother, look into the
mirror, look into your own eyes, look at the structure of your face and what do
you see? A Woman? I think not. My Brother, you need another man to get you
where you need to be in life…. Stop resisting and start learning about what is
a normal process of life….growing into what you were born to be “A MAN”!!!!! Do
you wear “lip stick”, “eye shadow”, “sweet smelling perfume”, “ a bra”, or “a
dress” ? NO!!!!!! My brother you do not pose with neither of these things but
stand as a man being a man based on a man’s point of view. You may feel that
you don’t care what others think and you know yourself to be a man. Well, my
brother, what are you basing those facts on, what a woman told you? Or, is it
based on a group of facts established by a group of ideas imposed by women
toward a group of boys in a man’s body who bowed down to them for the sexual
content of their gifts? Who watched? You? Is this where your knowledge of how
to be a man came from? My Brother, you were established by men!!!! What are you
afraid of? Not getting laid or getting attention by women???? Test yourself, be
“pro-male”, never disagree with a man in the presence of a woman, never argue
with another man in the presence of a woman and watch the effects of this
change in the women around you. Never get mad at another man around a woman
always pull that man aside and handle the situation in an educated, business,
manly way, and the effects will not be only known by women but by men also who
didn’t anticipate getting any good reviews by women on this matter because they
thought it will have a negative effect on them if they sided with any man that
went up against any group of women (especially beautiful women).
Loving this morning with
you on my mind.... I look up into the sky and there I see a cloud pointing in a
direction that will lead me to your heart, as I open the door there I see a
kiss left by your lips as you walked away and looked back at me and again
pushed a kiss..... Your beauty is as radiant as the sight which I seen when we
kissed, closing my eyes then remembering you once again as you touched my waist
moving up to my chest pulling me closer and kissing me deeply once again.... My
knees drop as you lifted me up holding my chin looking into my eyes connecting
my heart to yours as you whispered into my ears with my eyes watching you
say....."Come to me........"
At last the sun has set
and your eyes have lifted me high in the night sky's... It is your beauty that
lures me in its darkness then touching my way across your body hearing your
moans of sexual explosion...... The wetness dipping pass my hand that has
reached out to you knowing that it is only this love that has been given to me
as a gift lightens the night sky so I can see your face radiantly reflecting
the love which has been handed to me only to explore..... I caress your back as
you tremble holding me tightly, gripping me, and rubbing firmly until I can no
longer resist what you have extended to me as a gift now held in my hands to
glorify even more..... The mist rising into the air blows skyward then falls as
sprinkles back down onto your thighs as my hands slip away massaging your feet
pulling them closer above my shoulders as you moan gently into my ear easing the
pain which you once explored and have given to me to endure these such
pleasures of hearing
you repeat them once
again against my ear..... I pause only to feel your hands grab my body tightly
against your body to repeat the same sequence of my mood once again......
I opened my porch door
and the atmosphere was fresh. I looked back to admire the perfect curves of
your body in rapped with the smooth touch on satin sheets clinging to the form
of your body…. I smiled knowing that your dreams are as beautiful as your smile
while watching your favorite movie or the child who does that funny thing that
touches a mother’s heart….. I turn and walked back to the bed sitting on its
edge rubbing your calf then up toward your thighs…… You open your eyes with
sparkles and with a smile…..”Good morning……”
Where Candles Meet and the
air Is Clear
I’m sitting here imaging what it would be like if you were in my arms and kissing my lips as sucking and licking my tongue. As I kiss your lips licking your tongue with a flicker…. You then kiss my chin down my neck opening my shirt exposing my chest for more delightful moisture down toward my stomach…. Strawberries are within reach as I place one on the tips of your lips… gliding it down your chin…… across your neck…. then down your chest….. I look into your eyes as you slowly close them tight knowing what is on my mind as I place my hands beneath your thighs pulling them upward toward my chest then across my shoulders…… The scent of you carry me upward that place deep within our minds where flowers never die but extend themselves to fragrant us so that no one know that we are there ……… As I click on the light and dim it to a candles shadow….. You whisper into my ear........ “…It is you that make all of this so special……..”
What Profits A Man If He
Gains The Whole World And Loses His Respect
Any contact a man has with a woman without the knowledge of what controls her desires he now becomes responsible for any reaction that results from that contact. This is how a man suffers. It doesn't matter what a man feel...s after his initial contact he now has to pay the penalty of his uneducated response of his selfish actions and desires by coming into existence in that woman's life. Now, if a man can control his own desires before a woman who has been initiated that contact he now has all the power that is needed to control what was triggered to set the motion of her desires.
It's out there, those results from her contact. Not all women will fall in this trap but most of them will because money, education, security is the bait that draws them into his power. If a man can control any of his desires that prompts her desires then he will be a man of faith. If a man can either give a woman money, education, and security or of those things you will control her every existence.
Harvesters Of Life
There are three types of harvester’s of life. Those who have the seed, those who have the seed and study the genetics of the seed, and those who study the genetics of the seed as well as the surrounding in which it will grow healthy and strong.
Men will be Men.....
Men will be Men..... We just mature slower than women.... The toys that men received or seen as a child are much more fun to play with when you have the money and are grown up enough to understand why you have them. Men tend to play with more of them (toys)..... But just as a young child he soon gets bored and buys something else to play with.... Unless he is into Antiques… then he cherish what he has more often and have less of them because they get expensive and are more fragile ..... Increase your value my dear and he will protect you at all cost..... One thing about this though, you may still have to compete with the other antiques to maintain your value........ Or you may find yourself as just another out-dated toy that is on a shelf that no one wants to play with or see unless it is in a museum and we know how that ends up….. Back in storage until people (men) are interested in you again….
When will a woman become a
woman……..
When will a woman become a woman when she has never been touched by a man who knows her body better than she? When will a woman be a woman when she has never felt the feeling of love bubbling deep inside her as that man stroke her body as she moans? When will a woman be a woman if she never cried the tears of joy when the feeling of ecstasy explodes running down her legs like honey freshly made as his lips and tongue cleans her? When will you become a woman knowing that having a child only exploits you if you never have been sexed, fucked, straddled doggie style and rode as you were a horse mounted by a rough rider being chased by the law? When will a woman be a woman if you never seen a man cry after making love to you because he knows that it is you that he will forever spend his life with from that moment on? I am that man that will bring those same tears to your eyes, making your body shake, sweat, and tremble as if you were going to faint. I am that man that will ride you as if I were being chased. I am that man that will touch you gently making you gasp as if there were no air to revive you. I am that man that will enter inside you spreading that honey that you pour across your legs like honey on freshly baked hot bun….. Come to me………
Modern Day Run-Away-Slave
I will always Love/hate you forever...... I am just so proud of you for raising our son the way you have and you just don't understand that. You reach back too far in time and hold bullshit against me that happened when we were kids.... Now, you hold everything that seems as what it was against me if you think it is going in that direction. My children don't contact me or call me.... I always call them and reach out to them..... I am not blaming you now because it is not his fault or mines...... It was just your selfish ways to get back at me.... but I forgive you.... all women are like that even in all states where men are always around their kids.... Most single mothers still have something negative to say to the babys father no matter what.... either he is not giving enough...... not around enough..... not spending enough time with the children....... not baby sitting when the mother want to do other things enough...... or just not meeting her expectations of a man that she never had..... Well, I am a man believe it or not no matter what one woman may say or feel..... There are more women that tell me I am an outstanding man and father than those who tell me I am not..... I stand by the majority not the minority of women. You are the only woman that I know who think that way...... you are probably just pissed off or going through things I just don't see ...... or understand.... I can never be you or feel what you feel, I can never be a mother..... Men will never change unless he is afraid of losing her to the Friend of the Court ("Plantation Master") and then his life is over ("slave until he dies")..... Once a man have a child by a woman ("born into slavery") it seems that he is her slave for the next eighteen years of that child's life.... and if he runs then he is a Dead beat Dad ("run-away-slave").!!! And the mother gets a court order and the County Sheriff's ("sends out the slave hunters with the Blood Hounds") to go get him and bring him back to face the Judge ("KKK Grand Wizard"). I can tell you one thing women just don't have a clue once the Friend of the Court ("KKK Grand Counsel" and "slave masters") give them that control (" the whip") to keep us in line by giving us 40 days in jail for neglect to pay on time ("40 lashes and back to the fields to pick cotton"). But still we always come back .... I will always come back to you....... You are my Queen .......
A Man’s Sin….
My brother, it is the faith of God that leads us..... I to have an addiction.... and it pulls me each and every day.... I to have the desire and the addiction of the flesh.... The desire of a woman's touch and her scent that lures me into a ...world of temptation.... My brother my addiction to sex is as an addict who dwells in the darkness for that fix..... But I pray to God on my knees to be freed from this addiction.... I am not ashamed to admit it nor is it being a man to fall to its temptation..... When a man fails to control his desires he is no longer a man of his own self.... Just as a boy who is drawn by a woman only to find out her only need to him is his desire to control her by his personal desires....He cannot, for a woman's desires stands separately from a man’s desires and what a woman need is the need to be draped in the material that created her.... Think about it.... It is that need to be a man in a woman’s site that causes us as a man to go astray..... We fall in the pit of drugs, murder, self-contempt, and pride by the woman's desire to define who we are.... it is a drug which is a circle we must break.... It is not your fault you are the way you are ..... You must now recognize this and be a man and define who you are as a man that God has created to lead all things on earth....No, creature will follow anything that is weak.... That is our sin..... That is why we struggle... this is why we fail......
Life Mistakes……. My Story
You know, I resigned
from my job on May 1st 2009 because of something my director accused me of
doing that was a great insult. Before I get into the nature of that let me
explain to you about who I am and what lead me to be this way. I am from a
family of twelve, six boys and six girls. We were poor but I didn’t notice it
because my father always fed us and clothed us. My father worked every day for
Chrysler because he had two sets of children whom he cared for until they
reached the age of either eighteen or they moved out due to his strict rules.
He paid child support almost until he was in his late fifty’s. I admired my
father even though he was very stern in his way of disciplining all of us. I
observed that my father did not take any mess from his kids when they made
mistakes whether in school or out in the neighborhood. My father was truly
respected in and around our community while I was growing up. He would cut the
neighbors grass, shovel everyone’s sidewalk in the winter and rake leaves
during the fall. My mother and father divorced when I was about ten or eleven
years of age and before that time my mother rarely spoke. I did not know my
mother was hearing impaired until later on in the following years… I didn’t
know that my mother and her mother didn’t get along nor any of the family
secrets until I was in my late teens. Well, when my father and mother divorced
my mother lost control of my older sister then me then my younger sister
because we thought we could get around things if no one saw us, call it being
sneaky. But, what we didn’t realize is that as a child grows into adulthood
those tricks we were playing and how they are formed were mastered way before
we were even born. Our parents were watching for those patterns in us and let
some slide and others we had to be punished for. Our parents grew up with those
same patterns and master those skills. My mother had such skills and I did not
want to give her credit so I rebelled, dropped out of school, and ran off with
my thug associates. Well, just as most kids or teens growing up in Detroit with
that same “I don’t think anyone is as slick as me “ state of mind pattern I
fell victim to the drug game. This lead me into street gangs, fights, carrying
hand guns, carrying shot guns, shoot outs, sleeping in my friends basements
because I did not have anywhere to go, sex, sex orgy’s, stealing, roaming
around with other teens at night, and then, paddling drugs to feed myself and a
way to stay warm and within shelter, I was thirteen years of age then. When I
was sixteen I use to do this slick minded stuff until the courts ruled that
lowing the age to send kids to prison was needed. I took notice to that right away,
which forced me to believe that I wasn’t a gangster after all or did not want
to be that type of gangster. So while no one was looking or paying attention at
the age of seventeen or eighteen I signed up for the Michigan National Guards
and went off to Fort Benning, Georgia, School of Infantry, for infantry
training and Advance Infantry training. The Army boot camp taught me how to
respect others, consider what others were saying, think before you speak, learn
from your mistakes, to pick yourself up, keep moving on, never quit or know
when to quit when the odds are too great for you to win by yourself or shall I
say retreat. Well, some of those values stuck and the most important ones
didn’t. So any way, after I reported into my National Guard unit and a few
months had passed I began to slip and show patterns of my gangster old ways.
So, slowly I began to associate with some of the most hard core thugs or
gangsters in and around the Dexter/Calvert/Collingwood area which soon was seen
that I was around just for the ride and glamour and not for what the game was
worth. Animosity arose about leadership status, who owes who money, tricking
money on girls whose only entertainment was to show off that they had a
“Baller”, and going to strip clubs. Sellers began using the drugs that they
were suppose to sell, robbing dope houses became the hustle of choice for those
whose ticket money became too great to pay off. So, soon with nowhere else to
go and not wanting to go back to a house that my mother was still trying to
structure, I left the game all together, went back to school, graduated, and
joined the Marines. Marine boot camp put things into perspective for me, it was
really tuff. I thought that Army boot camp was hard and it was, but, the Army
boot camp and Marines psychological training joined with the motivational
stress training was like throwing lambs to lions.
I was glad Marine boot
camp was over and I seen once I went back to the hood in Detroit that things
were getting worse and I didn’t want to be part of that sort of thing anymore.
While in the Marines I
was stationed with many combat units, liberty units, toured overseas, and made
some mistakes. I was able to regroup before the situation got to tight or out
of hand and escaped by the skins of my teeth. Women have always been my
weakness, from the first time I was exposed to sex in my early teens to my
adulthood which I carried into my military career. As far back as I could
remember I always admired the men, who had beautiful women standing next to
them, dressed in expensive suits or attire, appeared in the most popular men
fashion magazines, and those men whom spent money around women as if money was
no object. I also noticed that these same men had so much control over how the
black women thought, which inspired them to be who they were, how they composed
their lives, and how the black women who obtained such level appeared to be
happy with their lives. I’ve seen how the black woman sought after the dreams
that the successful powerful white men spread out before them, education,
savings, homes, businesses, and other such luxuries. All of that fascinated me
and I wanted that same status quo. So, I made a promise to myself to be like
that or appear to be that person was on the outside. It didn’t dawn on me that
education and financial stability was an important factor in all of these
successful appearances. Why? Because it isn’t shown in the magazines that
proper preparation through proper education and financial planning is a tool in
becoming successfully stable. And if you had all of that some still did not
achieve that same wealth and failed or remained in mediocre job positions. How
these men became who they were or how they made their money was not pasted in
the description. It wasn’t shown that some of these white successful men
possibly had parents who prepared for their success and placed them into the
world that I was seeing….. So, I made and spent money foolishly and still do
today.
Now, back to the work
situation, I posted information that was sent to me from our company pertaining
public sites and business news which was distributed for anyone to see. I then
received that information via company email and posted it on one my blogs. Once
it was noticed that I was doing that my supervisor, manager, and director
called me into the office and confronted me about it. It didn’t bother me about
what I was accused of doing but what did both me is that these individuals had
the nerve to accuse me of doing something that everyone else was doing I later
found out. My department leaders or shall I say those who are within the first
three levels above me have a serious professional problem. I have noticed this
problem from the very first day I reported in ten years ago but ignored the
signs and thought it was just a phase since I was new. But when the incidents
came up over and over again I started to outright ignore them when I should
have complained or should have gone to human resources. So, when I was
approached and they insinuated that I had stolen or retrieved company
information that was available for public online viewing I was insulted. So,
after thinking about what the recourse may have been I decided to resign
instead of risking the fate of being fired for something that was unrelated in
the future. They tried to talk me out of resigning and explained that it wasn’t
that serious. What stayed in my mind is how they approached me. If it wasn’t
that serious then why did they not tell me that in the beginning instead of
dragging me into an embarrassing meeting in front of management? I know that if
I would have stay that incident would have came up and that would have been the
catapult for dismissing me. Now, I have left my job and everything seems so
compressed. I have applied for 300+ jobs and I don't know what to do... Bills
are piling up but not exactly due.... but they are coming in..... my ex- will
not lower the child support and I just got a letter from the Friend of the
Court about a outstanding balance that isn't that much but will grow...... My
rent is due and I don't know where I am going to get the money from..... I have
a job possibility but they said that I will get a call within two to three
weeks...... Man, the life I seen when I was younger is a lot different close
up....... I know that I will make it I am a strong man and hustler like that
but I just don't want to go out that way anymore..... Life is really pushing me
out there....... I know that once I fall to far back on my child support which
I have paid for the last 18 years on time is over looked once I am in
arrears..... And they said that it is a felony to avoid paying it so I must go
down and talk to them about my situation..... Man, I will be glad when my son
turns eighteen in January...... His mother will be in such a shock when the money
will not be in her hands anymore....
I know that this is a
long story but I need your advice…….
[Words Of Wisdom Forever]
So, what time does
Santa Claus really come? Can parents tell me please? He seemed to miss my
neighbor's home for some reason! Not here next to me but there next to you
because they are a no good stealing, cheating, racist, black, non-Christian,
non-Islamic, American hating, Middle Eastern hating, I wish he would build that
wall supporting, all Spanish Speaking, I wish all Americans must die speaking,
I am glad President Obama will be gone saying, I hate President-Elect Donald
Trump supporting, kill all the police speaking, all blacks are criminals and do
not trust them thinking, why are they living next to me saying, F'k this neighborhood
thinking, illegal gun carrying, let's go back to Africa saying, Foreign Policy
supporting, stop letting our jobs go overseas saying, what's wrong with more
immigrants coming here supporting, I wish they were still enslaved that are
Irish-Italian-European-African-Chinese-India-Middle
Eastern-German-Polish-Jewish-Russian-French-Romanian-Nortic-Eastern
Block-Spanish-South American-Central American and all those countries we cannot
pronounce descendants that came to the Americas to escape atrocities against
them and their families supporting, drug selling, drinking and driving if I can
get away with it thinking, having sex with your neighbor's
wife/husband/child/mother/father best friend loved one, door slamming, floor
stumping, motorcycle driving, Redneck truck driving, loud hip-hop music
playing, country music, back woods living, ghetto talking, uneducated, low
lifestyle living, broke and all them kids having, dirty hillbillies, pants
sagging, foul month talking, porn watching, homosexual having, bully supporting,
trash throwing, you don't live in this country thinking, non-English speaking,
green card holding, I am not living in America supporting, it's not where we
live saying, keep them out of our neighborhood thinking, funny smelling food
cooking, animal rights supporting, Republican-Democrat-Conservative-Tea Party
supporting, if they are not with us they are against us thinking, White
Supremacy followers that had African Enslaved ancestors who were raped and had
black children with European features and now hiding as White acting Black
haters, African-Americans living as African-Americans that now have white skin
and have married into the European race and have abandoned your people acting,
I am better than you thinking, Low wage making, bus riding, classic car or
expensive car driving, car stealing, vandalizing property person, stealing
packages off my door step and keying cars doing, if they are not my religion
they going to he'll and don't deserve any rights thinking,
Irish-Italian-European-African-Chinese-India-Middle
Eastern-German-Polish-Jewish-Russian-French-Romanian-Nortic-Eastern
Block-Spainish- South American-Central American and all those countries we
cannot pronounce wanna be's, long walking, hitch hiking, homeless, cannot pay
your bills or no time doing, not helping your neighbor's when they are all
God's children practicing, hating others because they are not your race or
religion, hating someone because they do not speak your language, not knowing
your family is in need, not being understanding because they are not us
thinking bigots!!!!! And you all are going to die a horrible death!!!!
But We Still Love You!!!
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But We Still Love You!!!
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Stay Focused While At Work and while In A Busy Work Environment
(Part 1)
I have been privileged to work alongside of
many great intelligent and very knowledgeable professionals in my thirty plus
years in the corporate setting. During this time, I have incorporated many new
skills sets that have allow me to move up the ladder with those that I
supported. The higher I go the more demanding my positions have gotten and my
focus have seemed to slip away from me. Maybe it is because my family have all
grown and conduct their own responsibilities. Or maybe it is the upcoming
projects that are consistently on-going and number three or four at a time and
are compacted with nine or so levels which need constant analytical attention
and patience. Whatever the reason my focus seem to be slipping away.
Staying focused while dealing with many responsibilities has become a major setback for most professionals. Whether is it family concerns, home projects, vacations or losing focus due to admiring a very nice day outside and you draft off in a vacation state of mine we need to complete our work. We all know that paying the bills and completing assignments in a timely manner and staying on top of them is what keep us all employed.
I have taken many vitamin supplements some of which I thought worked and some was just an extra reassurance to form a steady state of mind. No matter what is was it seemed that I would lose focus after about five minutes or so.
I began retraining my mind, which is very difficult at the age of 54 soon to be 55 years of age. What I noticed that helped me a lot was to relax and take breaks in between each session of work. I don’t know if everyone has this privilege to do this but since I work in a corporate setting I could just adjust my mind and attention on something a little less demanding which would relax my mind.
Staying focused while dealing with many responsibilities has become a major setback for most professionals. Whether is it family concerns, home projects, vacations or losing focus due to admiring a very nice day outside and you draft off in a vacation state of mine we need to complete our work. We all know that paying the bills and completing assignments in a timely manner and staying on top of them is what keep us all employed.
I have taken many vitamin supplements some of which I thought worked and some was just an extra reassurance to form a steady state of mind. No matter what is was it seemed that I would lose focus after about five minutes or so.
I began retraining my mind, which is very difficult at the age of 54 soon to be 55 years of age. What I noticed that helped me a lot was to relax and take breaks in between each session of work. I don’t know if everyone has this privilege to do this but since I work in a corporate setting I could just adjust my mind and attention on something a little less demanding which would relax my mind.
Stay Focused While At
Work and while In A Busy Work Environment (Part 2)
Listening to some soft and relaxing slow music that energizes and also helps to readjust my mind from any tension gives me a sensation of completeness when my stress factors are going up.
I also noticed drinking coffee increases my stress levels in my mind. But water seems to replenish me with the fluids that I need reduces my stress. Natural juices or juicing with veggies and fruits instead of drinking pop or sugary drinks is a plus in helping my mind to relax which give my body and brain the nutrients that is lost due to stress.
I have tried to exercise and do so whenever I am motivated enough to do so with long walks in a very quiet environment.
While at home I have trained my mind not to turn on any distracting devices, such as, cable networks, news stations, network shows or whatever the distractions come from this device. My suggestion to you is not to turn on any of these devices while you are retraining your mind.
Youtube music for work and concentration. Youtube have many music selections that will fit your need in assisting your effort retraining your mind and assist in the effort of training your mind to stay focused.
If you have any other suggestions, please let
me know. I would really appreciate it as well as others who may read the post.
So
you are a wise and educated man I see...
So you are wise and
educated man I see, with much knowledge and wisdom. I respect that. But to
learn what is truth from one source group does not mean there is 100% truth in
what you been told. Just as false prophets come to deceive us spiritually there
are those high above us that guide what is learned and understood in this
country. Money and power is everything if your want change to be applied over a
point of time. Documenting what you want those to believe and creating institutions to educated those to
pass those deceptive truths to many generations over a period of time is the
strongest weapon on earth. One perception of a truth doesn't mean that you are
ignorant. But, that person who follows that fruth is lead to believe a truth
that he or she understand. So, if your truth is something that you understand
we will leave it at that. I respect that because I understand social behaviors.
Settling for one truth or deception of a truth only shows that an wide
intelligence and understanding range could not be achieved. This chould be out
of fear or embarrassment it is okay too. That fact is, it is a person's
American right to believe these truths that gives them hope. If you take away a
person's hope their will to survive will cause
catastrophic consequences that
will lead to the destruction of us all.
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Men:
Stop calling people your friend
Men: Stop calling people your friend when they are only an associated
from here or there or a casual acquaintance, call them as they are or you will
be setting yourself up to be disappointed by them. Always be business minded.
Always be in tune with those who are around you. Always be one step ahead of
those who say they love you. Always be aware who your neighbors are and who
their children associate with. Always wear a tie to work, you can take it off
when you get there. Men, always have at least one
Fedora in your collection of hats and wear it at least twice per week to work.
Always have a back-up and a back-up plan, don’t worry they will get over it believe
me! Always pray four times a day to gain strength and power over those who
possess the evil spirits to bring you down using a woman’s ideas. Always put
two days out of the month to enjoy yourself alone. Always search for a better
level of associates. Always go out to eat dinner with those that you choose (
it do not have to be your wife and family) at least once per month, enjoy
yourself and learn to associate with different professionals at all levels.
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IS THE FIRST DAY OF MY SUCCESS!!!!"
Never look at a day as if it is a day of remorse! Look at each day as a
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President-Elect
Donald Trump - Power-President-Freedom
(Part 1)
Every time there’s a
president-elect or some that is running for a political office there are those
that still feel that their freedoms are in Jeopardy. If someone is running for
an office on a political level, there are most definitely always going to be
controversies. Knowing this the problem that I have with a lot of these things
that’s going on in our United States of the Americas is the fact that most
African-American people do not understand that we too have the power to elect
our own leaders. So, how come we cannot elect our own African-American leaders
that are from our African-American communities and culture? There’s reasons why
we cannot and one of them is the mare fact that we do not trust each other. As
the European-American powers watch us fight over the scraps that are thrown to
the floor we pick them out and brush them off so that they appear to be as it was
when it was first sat upon their table.
There are those who still
think that the White Supremacy groups have so much control over our anger that
we must react to everything that is displayed to us by them. So, why should we
fuel the power of the White Supremacy Movement by calling them white and not
European-Americans? Why? Because we as African-Americans have been tooled to
believe that if it is not from their very mouth and has been approved by their
leaders it does and will never exist without their say-so.
Again, I say, why are we
following their paths that they tread like hound dogs searching for the very
slaves that ran away to be free?
Do we want to be placed
back into a slave state? Who discovered this method of freedom that we follow
like an unwanted dog that keeps being kicked every time it tries to rub up
against its master? Slaves that’s who.
If you look back at the
pattern of the slaves who were born to be such and was acclimated into the life
as if that was their only option and not to die you will see that same pattern
today. We move not into the homes that were built by our forefathers, but the
forefathers of those who embraced the freedoms of slavery and what fortunes it
produced for their children and their children’s children even until today.
I see how the home-grown
African-Americans together with their smiles of acknowledgement that it is safe
for them to tread around amongst them. We even try to discourage our young not
to rebel in to face or presence of those European-Americans who may be
watching, which are not, because they know that we are watching ourselves for
them.
Now on to subject of the
President-Elect Donald Trump. Who is he and what does he stand for?
I have seen many come and go in my life
time and not one President-Elect that was sworn in to be the President of these
United States of the Americas have aroused my attention to believe that either
Democrat of Republican would increase the well-being of our African-American
Urban communities.
We have chosen many
Democratic and Republican leaders and not one have come to the need of the
African-American family and increased their level of life by placing them in a
better home in the community which they resided in.
Now here we sit in the
presence of a new Kingdom being ruled by a New King who have ousted the Kingdom
of the previous Kings and now sits on his throne to govern all those that the
other once ruled. And we shall serve this New King and the Kingdom that he will
create around him without question. And, if this New King calls his servants to
protect those same shores and land that our great nation has protected for
hundreds of years we shall go with honor and integrity.
So, what are we going to do about this.
Well one of the things we can do is try to understand exactly how all of this
started.
My first idea is based on
some of the things that I was actually in line with while I was talking to this
gentleman and he was just rambling and saying to me that “...you know based on
the Affirmative Action African-Americans (or the blacks as he referred to us)
was given a leg up with giving them more points on tests so that they can have
jobs....”. Well my idea of all of this is the fact that the reason why that was
so was due to the unjustly acts of the current wealth balance of those who were
controlling the employment and who were getting those jobs. African-Americans I
was told by an educated southerner, that affirmative action was designed to
help the underprivileged African-Americans a fair chance to compete in a job
market only designed to employ an all European-American workforce. He also
stated that the Affirmative Action act give points to those in lower income
areas who were given poor educational material to prevent those
African-American men and women a fighting chance to compete. It also allowed
them to sit with those who were more privileged in access to better
knowledgeable material as a child and through better schools which allow them
to make better grades on entry tests.
So, hearing this I had to
go back to my childhood days. Doing this I looked back at all the
African-American families that left their southern shacks, huts, poor housing
or farms to pursue a better life in the automotive industry. Now, I was told by
my father and those growing up before or during my father’s time that most of
the employment was unskilled and very laborious work. So not much, if any,
education was needed. This being said, how could one uneducated person be more
educated than another uneducated man or woman seeking that same employment?
This is because African-Americans didn’t have a fair chance at these jobs no
matter what their education level was.
Now, these jobs in
manufacturing or labor skilled jobs that most European-Americans had or gotten
was because either their parents knew someone that was a foreman or manager or
they were a family member or friend of those who had the skills to pass on to
those who were European-Americans. Either way those jobs were passed down from
family member to family member and was set up for those that entered this
country who had already had been promised employment. Since these skilled
positions were locked down so that the Europeans coming into these United
States of the Americas it made employing African-Americans even harder even if
those who wanted to give equal employment to anyone could not.
So, the only way that African-Americans
were able to compete for these jobs was to give them a fair chance. By giving
skilled (properly trained and educated) and semi-skilled (trained but little education)
points so that they could possibly get a good skilled job and better provide
for their families in the future. Some of those Europeans who became Americans
and who entered this country or was promised jobs even while that were still in
their mother’s womb could no longer compete for the jobs no matter what the
European-American test score was. African Americans still had an edge even if
someone tried to base their schooling of a higher level education against the
African-Americans who earn that same right to compete and work fairly in these
United States of the Americas.
Now, because most wealthy
educated European-Americans wanted African-Americans to fail, test scores were
elevated this caused the average European-American with less challenged
education to try even harder to still get better scores than the
African-American in this country and those coming into this country from other
nations.
End of Part 1
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